Critters.com forum is a place to share thoughts and feelings and support each other during such difficult times.
We can judge the heart of a man by his treatment of animals. -Immanual Kant.
01-08-2008 5:38 PM -- By: Linda, Critters.com memorial: Bailey Memorial I believe you click on Search at the top of this page, type in the pets name and under Type of Pet, scroll down and choose Dog. I hope this helps you!
01-08-2008 2:44 PM -- By: edna, Pet's name: could someone please tell me how to visit a tribute if i only know the name of the dog and name of person who sponsered the tribute.thanx in advance.
01-08-2008 8:10 AM -- By: Lauvern, Critters.com memorial: Luke Memorial Hello Everyone. How are you all doing? Now with the hardest time{holidays}without our babies is over,I hope we can all have more happiness then sadness in our lives.I know we will never completely heal from losing our precious babies but maybe with time it will get easier.The holidays were hard on me as i am sure they were on all of you. Take care all. Hugs from Luke's mommy.
01-06-2008 8:08 PM -- By: Jeanne, Critters.com memorial: Holly Memorial Bill of Rights for Grieving Animal Lovers
It is Hereby Declared that Grieving Animal Lovers have the Right: To feel the pain of grief when the bonds with our pets are broken. The bonds we have with our companion animals are deep and strong; the pain we feel when those bonds are broken is real and worthy of our grief.
To feel shocked and overwhelmed by the intensity of our grief. Since our animals' life spans are so much shorter than our own, it is inevitable that eventually we will experience the loss of our beloved animal companions. The grief we feel at such times can be far more intense than we ever expected, no different from that of losing another special family member or cherished friend.
To understand our grief reactions, feelings and behaviors as normal. Grief is a natural, spontaneous response to the loss of a significant relationship.
To express our grief in our own unique way, within our own time frame. The course of grief is unpredictable and uneven, with no specific time frame. How we express our grief will vary among individuals, but we all get through it in personally meaningful ways.
To have our grief recognized by others as significant and legitimate. Since grieving over animals isn't generally accepted in our society, we may feel uneasy or embarrassed, as if we have no right to feel or express our grief because our loss is not significant enough. But we're not grieving "just an animal". Since we're the only ones who know how much our animals meant to us, when they're gone we're the only ones who can measure how very much we've lost.
To feel supported by others in our grief. When our companion animals die, there are no formal, public rituals where we can express and share our sorrow, talk about our loss and obtain the sympathy and support of others. At the very time when we need to be with others who understand, we feel isolated and alone. We need to find someone with whom we can openly acknowledge our feelings, express and work through our pain, and come to terms with our loss.
To honor the memory of our pets in whatever way we see fit. To memorialize our beloved companion animals is to honor and acknowledge the important role they played in our lives, to bring comfort to ourselves and to help us keep their love and presence in our hearts. Among other things, we can memorialize our pets by writing about them, making an album or a scrapbook, planting a living memorial in our garden, having a meaningful memorial service, funeral or ritual, or making a donation to a charitable animal organization in our pet's name.
THIS IS FOR ALL OF US!!! GOD BLESS US AND OUR BABIES!!! Love, Jeanne
01-06-2008 3:24 PM -- By: Sandi, Critters.com memorial: Dawson Memorial My wonderful, wonderful man is gone from my life. I can't begin to tell you all how my life has been shattered. And for some reason I feel guilt. I wish I had played with him more. So many nights when I came home from work all he wanted was to be scratched or petted. I think I gave it a half hearted attempt. I took him for granted as we sadly sometimes do with our loved ones, be they human or animal. I wish I had paid more attention to him and had him here to love for just one more day. I'd give the world to turn back the hands of time. I am so sad and heartbroken.
01-06-2008 10:44 AM -- By: Amber, Critters.com memorial: Nvwati Memorial Auntee I am thinking of you today. Bless WileY!
01-06-2008 10:26 AM -- By: AunteeMz, Critters.com memorial: Cinderella and ToTo Memorial My Girls - It has been six months today since your passing. Not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts. I also think of the others that are going through the loss of their fur loved ones, especially those new to the grief and pain. The rawness of your loss does get better. Time does heal. I still cry at the most interesting times and have no idea what will turn on the water works. I loved them so and just plain miss them.
My Girls brought a rescue puppy into my life. Don't know who is rescueing who, but he is a blessing. I'm alone, but no longer lonely. He does for me what My Girls did. Takes me outside -myself. Being selfless with the have to feed, water, walk, pet and talk.
My Girls are around. You get reminders. I now look forward to those times. Sometimes when it is very quiet, the puppy will look into one of the corners and move his head like he is following something. I get that strong sense of one of The Girls checking up on me. I tell them - I love you and tell your sister!
01-06-2008 12:10 AM -- By: Tracie Lil Joe's Mommy, Critters.com memorial: Lil Joe Memorial Today is the day, I will always remember how we went for your final ride through Jacks driveup so we could get an oreo shake, I remember how you looked so cute sitting in the back seat looking out of your window, and how we froze because we had to have the window down, what I wouldn't do to have that night back, It so so hard to believe that you left me a year ago tomorrow, I Miss You My Sweet Angel, I hope and Pray that I can see your Star in the Sky tonight for I know that you are ok, its your mommy that isn't but what can I say my Heart is so Broken from letting you go, Sending you Hugs and Kisses on your Rainbow Bridge Day Sweetie... Mommy and Daddy, Kooter and Sassie Will Always Love You....
01-04-2008 1:36 PM -- By: wicki, Sheba's mom, Critters.com memorial: Sheba Memorial To whomever posted the last comment: please try not to be so hard on yourself. If any of us had control over how long our pets lived, we'd just keep them with us forever. Please don't blame yourself! I'm sure you gave your little puppy so much love and it had a great life with you! I'm praying that God comforts you and eases your pain.
01-04-2008 12:37 AM -- By: , Pet's name: I feel like it is my fault that my dog died at a young age.
01-04-2008 12:03 AM -- By: Jude, Critters.com memorial: Xena Memorial Hi, all. We had to say goodbye to our lovely Xena tonight. We have had many cats in our life (and still do), and many have come and gone but it is always most difficult when you must make that decision for them. However, in Xena's case we thought it for the best, as she had suffered the past couple years with an increasingly painful condition that made her mouth sore, and the medications that helped most adversely affected her liver. She deteriorated severely in the past few days, and we knew it was time. Still, it was hard to look in her face at the last moments, knowing what we were to do. But it is much more peaceful now for her.
01-03-2008 8:28 AM -- By: Amber, Critters.com memorial: Nvwati Memorial Sandy I am so sorry you lost your sweet Casey. I lost my Nvwati Sept 29,th, 2007 and I still miss him terribly. This is something I expect to feel the rest of my life as he was such an important part of my life. Almost daily I find myself holding his urn close to my heart and speaking to him. Building his Memorial site has helped me in my griefwork. Good luck!
01-03-2008 12:39 AM -- By: Sandy, Critters.com memorial: Casey Memorial Thank you to everyone who took the time to share their experiences. It really is very kind. I know it will take time to heal. But it's good to know I'm not out there alone. It's just hard to face life after Casey. Again, thanks!! Sandy
01-02-2008 10:49 PM -- By: kelly, Critters.com memorial: SOCKS Memorial Hope everyones holidays were ok.Mine was a mess 1st year with out my baby Socks. Hope everyone got through there holidays ok with out there babies.
01-02-2008 8:24 PM -- By: Tracie Lil Joe's Mommy, Critters.com memorial: Lil Joe Memorial Hi Sandy, I wish I could help you, but the only thing is it does get a little easier with time, but after almost a year, I still Cry, because I miss my baby so much, but then I cry because there are also so many wonderful memories of my baby and I know he is watching over me and would want me to smile, because he always could make me happy. We all are different in how we handle losing our babies, Always know that Casey is with you, She is still with in your Heart Forever. Hugs to You. Tracie
01-02-2008 6:26 PM -- By: Ann, Critters.com memorial: Wor Noops(Snoopy) Memorial Sandy if you go on Casey's site and edit memorial you will see a memorial id, 4 digit number. That gives you the link. The only thing that helps with grief is time. Time doesn't stop us missing, but it does ease the pain. As time goes by, it does allow us to reflect on precious times with more smiles than sadness.
01-02-2008 1:59 PM -- By: Sandy, Pet's name: Caseydog Can't seem to get the link and photo on this post.
01-02-2008 1:57 PM -- By: Sandy, Pet's name: Casey Happy New Year everyone. I'm posting this message because I need to know if my problem is unusual. It's been almost 4 months since my sweet Casey passed, and there isn't a day that goes by that I'm not in tears. I keep hoping it will get better soon, but so far, nothing's changed. Any suggestions about how to get out of this funk? Sandy, Casey's mom
01-02-2008 12:41 PM -- By: Connie, Critters.com memorial: T-Bone Memorial I know I'm a little late but wanted to wish you all a better year ahead with much love and companionship from any remaining furry buddies that you may have. I know we all have had a tough time over the holidays no matter the time since we lost a loved fuzzy friend and I pray that we all continue to support each other and those unfortunate enough to lose one of their pals but fortunate enough to find this website with all the caring people here ! Thank you all for your kind words and support !
Connie (T-Bone's mom)
01-02-2008 5:32 AM -- By: jean- teds mom, Critters.com memorial: TED Memorial thank you all for your words of support and comfort to me for today! i miss him so but i dont need to tell you guys that because we are all in the same boat! some days are better than others, this just happens to be a really bad day! thank you all!
01-01-2008 11:36 PM -- By: Maria , Critters.com memorial: Stacey Memorial I put some videos of stacey on her memorial
01-01-2008 10:21 PM -- By: Annette, Critters.com memorial: Stimpy Memorial Hello everyone! I would like to invite everyone to visit my handsome cat Stimpy's memorial. I can't express enough how much comfort I get from everyone's thoughtful and compassionate messages. I love to show off my special boy to anyone who cares. I know he's watching and he must be touched by the all well wishing and prayers. Thanks! And I want to wish you all a very HAPPY and HEALTHY NEW YEAR!
01-01-2008 10:04 PM -- By: Jeannie, Critters.com memorial: Gypsy Rose Memorial Happy New Year to everyone. May this year bring more peace to your heart. May the sadness be less, and may we all find comfort with our new friends here at critters. Thank you all for visiting Gypsy Rose site, with the wonderful words of comfort, the beautiful ornament, and words of encouragement. Take care and stay safe.
01-01-2008 8:51 PM -- By: Tracie Lil Joe's Mommy, Critters.com memorial: Lil Joe Memorial To Everyone here at Critters and all the Wonderful People, I have met here, and are Truly Glad to have as my Friends. I Truly Wish you a A Happier New Year, and To Remember Our Wonderful Angels who Watch over us, each and everyday and that we can hold them close to our Hearts Always. Hugs to All of You. Tracie and my Lil Joe
01-01-2008 3:33 PM -- By: Maria , Critters.com memorial: Stacey Memorial I added some photo's of stacey on to her memorial page.
I hope you all are having a great New Year so far!
01-01-2008 2:37 PM -- By: brenda turner, Critters.com memorial: BUSTER Memorial Wishing you all love and happiness for 2008, and that we can all smile more than cry this year, knowing all our babies are all together running free and looking after each other over rainbow bridge, A big thank you to everybody for all your help and support since i came to Critters, i dont know what iv would of done without this site, its brought some many people together from miles apart, THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH, happy new year to you all, and big hugs to all the babies Love Brenda and Buster
01-01-2008 12:33 PM -- By: Amber, Critters.com memorial: Nvwati Memorial Happy New Years to everyone. May 2008 be a calmer , gentler, happier year for all.
01-01-2008 8:53 AM -- By: kathy, Critters.com memorial: daisy Memorial Happy New Year To Everyone Here On Critters!! May The New Year Bring Everyone Peace Love And Happiness!!
01-01-2008 8:48 AM -- By: Lauvern, Critters.com memorial: Luke Memorial Happy New Year Everyone.I hope the New Year brings us all more happiness then sadness.Lets all try to remember the happy times we had with our babies.I wish you all lots of happiness in the new year.
01-01-2008 4:36 AM -- By: Ann, Critters.com memorial: Wor Noops(Snoopy) Memorial Happy New Year Everyone. I hope 2008 allows you to remember your babies with more smiles than sadness as you reflect on your time together. I wish you all the very best.
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